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marebear1967 |
Merlyn,Please Help Me! |
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My Mom passed April 10th 2008.I miss her so much and have been asking her to visit me in a dream (I have had dreams of passed relatives,a friend and an Angel
when my Grandma and Aunt passed three months apart).But it has not happened,I just want to know how she is doing.Can you help me?.
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debspurpledragon |
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AWW I'm SO sorry for your loss!!
Please give her some time. Over there, the time is different then it is here. I know that it took a few months before Merlyn's Dad came to him. She WILL come...just try to be patient and I know that's VERY hard to do, but do try. |
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ghostlvr |
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Marebear, So very sorry for your loss!!! It may take some time, but she will come to you. My Mom and Dad both did to me. You are still so very upset and
your emotions are all over the place, which, ofcourse, is natural and to be expected. They may also be giving you time too. They may fear it will be too much
for you right now. I know its hard, I have lost both parents. Just hang in there and keep a circle of friends on hand to talk to. Dont be afraid to shout
out here!! Debs is correct, thier time is different too, so that plays a factor. Just remember, even if you cannot see your Mom, she is not far!! She is
still your Mom, even on the other side!!! Her love and concern for you are still very real!!! ((((( HUGS)))))))
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marebear1967 |
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I thought I was doing ok but then I see all the ads for Mother's day coming out and I start crying.My TV keeps turning channels,it did it today and
yesterday by itself.When it does it it will turn to a channel then back to what I was watching and it will do it 3 or 4 times.I wonder if that is her.
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marebear1967 |
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Thanks guys for your replies.Maybe your right and she just needs time.
Mare |
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rob |
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Wow,
I lost my Mom the same day. She was 86 and had cancer so it was a blessing in that sense. Since then, I've seen some of my folk's friends and then it dawns on me I can't go by and tell my Mom I just saw the XXXXXXs. Same thing with the Mothers Day Cards. (((Hugs))) Rob |
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mysticmerlyn1212 |
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Mary and Rob..
Sorry to hear of your mom's passings.. I have to agree that it may be too soon yet for them to come to you but Mary.. the TV switching was something your mom used to do sitting in her recliner.. She like Rob's mom are in a stage of processing their life and all that they came in connect with and whom they loved and lost too... It helps at times to let your sorrow out and vent too... You are in the state of mourning and loss and shock too.. I am just going through the death of my dad from cancer two days after his 83 birthday at Halloween or Samhain.. My dad came to me in a dream on Dec 21, 2007 the winter Solstice and he has been coming to me since than in my dreams and in meditations and in other forms too.. My dad was a golfer and dentist so many aspects of his life are all around me and my family.. It is very hard to want them to come back to you and let you know they are ok.. In fact, that was I have been told by many of the departed souls I speak too. Most say that they are great and no longer in pain and they feel more alive than when they were in physical form. Deb and others are correct when they mentioned the aspect of time on the veil between the worlds.. The concept of time is physcial measure and on the astral or etheral level or planes of existence this physical concept of time is not recognized. I have read several books about what happens to a person after they pass.. Slyvia Browne and others have wrote about first going through a scanning machine which to me is like a room where you are in and you are watching all your life events on various images sent to you telepathically. In this location you discoover all that you helped, loved, hurt etc.. It is like a huge life assesment location. A person spiritual being will be in that state for the amount of time it takes to be able to go to the next stage of the after life.. The coccoon stage. In this stage is when after a person has gone throught the scanning machine the coccoon stage or like larva stage is a place of methomorphic spiritual change. In this stage, one is filled with all the missing new information they have to learn on the other side of the veil for even though a person loses it physical shell the souls is immortal and so it needs to be understood and learn all over again what it can and can not do!! With many people who are suffering with cancer as ws my dad and rob's mom they do go through the 5 stages of death.. In fact, I watched and helped my dad through these phases for that was part of my spiritual path. I can see death in others.. The stages are: Denial: "It can't be happening." Anger: "Why me? It's not fair." Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my children graduate." Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?" Acceptance: "It's going to be OK." taken from The Kübler-Ross model describes, in five discrete stages, the process by which people deal with grief and tragedy, especially when diagnosed with a terminal illness. The model was introduced by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross in her 1969 book "On Death and Dying". The stages have become well-known as the "Five Stages of Grief". from here... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model
It is very sad too for the holidays will be the times when we will miss your loved one most.. For me it will be Father's day and his birthday of Halloween. For everyone it is different.. I know that there are many here who have comforted me in my loss of my father and they will continue to help you Mary and Rob.. Rob.. it will get harder too as the days and months go by too.. I have been in a major depression from my dad's passing but I have many friends and family that help me with my depression and I am seeking medical and professional help. I just go day by day actually any more.. Being a psychic medium and letting my dad know this over the years he never really believed in me until I was able to show him from my dreams of what I was able to find, see and explain to him. It helped to for I was with him at night when most of my family slept, I was watching over my dad as he used to do for me when I was a child. It is very sad to see the downward spiral that happens with a loved one passes. It makes one look at their own life and make sure that they have their life in order too for you really do not know when it is your time to go.. It makes one ponder the strangest stuff and one really looks deep inside for their own strength.. I know that right now your are both crying in solitude or in secret but be not afraid for many are with you comforting you !! I took strenght from so many friends and family and online friends.. I can do something for you which is just something that may both of you.. I will give you one of my angels I have with me that I send out to those in need.. Mary... Here is yours..
Rob here is yours..
I will also make this promise if you need to call on me and I will be there for you both... In addition, if you wish I can create a memorial graphic for both of you and host the images on my sited for I have a page that I update with all my fallen friends, family and pets.. here is the link... http://www.uc2enter.com/merlynspirit.html It may help and anyone else who wants a memorial graphic and hosted here let me know in another thread ok.. |
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hugs to all who have loved and lost
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marebear1967 |
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Oh Rob I'm so sorry.The same day April 10th,what time did your Mom pass?.Mine passed 12:40pm.I was eating lunch and got sick to my stomach around
12:45pm.The weird thing was my sister Midge was in Baltimore Md. and was eating lunch at the same time and got sick too.We are the only was that are into
spiritual enlightment and the Paranormal.my Mom had a stroke about three years ago and lost the ability to walk or use her hands right.She was in the hospital
in Feb. with fluid on her lungs and all through her body.The Dr. said she would not make it through the night.So I drove all night from N.C. to Baltimore.When
I got there she told me she saw Jesus in a long gold robe and he was glowing.He told her it was not her time yet.She wanted to go with him so bad.I'm
thankful to God she went peacefully.She was having her nails trimmed by an Aide at the nursing home and she let out this deep breath and was gone.Rob if you
ever want to talk I'm here.My e-mail is marebear1967@hotmail.com Merlyn thank you so much for your reply.Thank you for the Angel and yes that would be
great to do a memorial for my Mom.If any info. comes through about my Mom Merlyn please let me know.
God Bless,Mare |
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debspurpledragon |
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AWW I FEEL for you both.
My Mom passed in '99...I STILL cry for her.... I think I always will |
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vale |
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Mary and Rob I am so sorry for both of you. Merlyn you are a blessing to us. My parents are both in there 80's and I am thankful to still have them. I
think by reading Meryln's posts it helps prepare me for my parents passing.
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m mather |
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Hi, I'm new but have been lurking around here for a year or so. I'm kind of shy thats why this is my first post. I too just lost my father to lung
cancer in Feb, so coming apon this thread really hit home. Mary & Rob My heart goes out to you both, and everyone els out there who is mourning a loved
one. It's so sad and just plain hard to deal with, but Just rememer their not gone, they will give you signs in time, my father already has, and my
grandfather gives my mother signs all the time and he passed back in 90.
God bless Melissa |
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mysticmerlyn1212 |
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Melissa ..
Welcome to ShadowLands.. My condolence to you and others who lost a friend, family member or pet this past year or years.. It is hard at times for all of us.. Anyone who wants a memorial graphic just email me at uc2enter@yahoo.com please let me have this information.. Name of person, date of death font color and or favorite images.. I will host all the images for anyone here.. Just know that I am not the fastest at looking at my email at home.. If you send me an email and I do not answer in a couple of days send me a PM here on YUKU and I will check my mail.. |
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